By Invitation Only
A journey from understanding your structure to changing your patterns.
Understand yourself. Put that understanding to work.
We help you discover who you are at your core, understand how life has shaped you and change the patterns that keep you from living in a way that feels true to yourself.
In person or online · Strictly confidential
A personal face-reading session to explore your natural strengths, tendencies and needs. We relate the observations to your own experience and what feels right for you.
For understanding what comes naturally to you and where you thrive.
I'm interested in The Analysis →Three months of one-to-one coaching to understand the roles, expectations and beliefs behind your reactions. Keep what supports you and practise new responses where old patterns hold you back.
For acting with greater awareness of your needs, values and choices.
I'm interested in The Practice →The Analysis stands on its own. It is also the first of the 12 sessions in The Practice.
What comes naturally to you? Where do you thrive? Face reading opens a personal conversation about your strengths, needs and the direction that feels right for you.
The talents you recognise in yourself and where they can serve you.
How you naturally approach people, decisions and challenges.
The pace, relationships and surroundings in which you thrive.
Where different needs pull you in different directions.
What matters to you and how to make room for it in everyday life.
A focused personal session, in person or by video call, and the recording afterwards, yours to keep.
Three months of personal coaching, with twelve weekly 1:1 sessions beginning with The Analysis. The focus and pace follow your individual process. We return to these themes as needed throughout our work together.
The Analysis explores your strengths, tendencies and needs. Together, we set the direction for the work.
Notice the roles, expectations and beliefs behind your automatic reactions.
Work with everyday situations. Practise responses that fit your needs and values.
Keep what supports you and strengthen new habits through everyday practice.
"I went looking for who I am. Then for what is left when that falls away."
Three years of burnout took away everything I had built an identity on. I couldn't work, couldn't walk fifteen minutes without my nervous system giving out, and nothing the doctors tried moved it. What was left was the question underneath: who am I, if I am none of that?
The search went two ways at once. Outward, into how a person is actually built - which led me to reading people, with the face at its centre. And inward, where thinking gets you nowhere, so I sat with it instead: three hours a day, for months. What interests me now is the translation between the two.
I came in curious and left genuinely understanding myself better. Fabian put words to things I'd felt my whole life but never named.

Calm, precise and surprisingly practical. The strengths he pointed out are exactly the ones I've since leaned into at work.

I was sceptical at first. By the end I was taking notes. It felt less like a reading and more like a mirror held at the right angle.

I approach face reading as an observational practice for reflection and self-understanding. We explore the observations together and relate them to your own experience, your strengths and the patterns you recognise. You can question anything that comes up. The value is in what helps you understand yourself and consider your next steps.
The Analysis is a complete, standalone session. You can book it on its own. The Practice includes The Analysis as its first session; if you continue after The Analysis, that session counts towards the 12. The coaching then builds on what we explored together.
No. There is no doctrine, nothing to join, nothing you are asked to believe. The work is experiential and can be checked by the person doing it. Where I use language from contemplative traditions, it is because that language is precise. It carries no belief system with it.
You will be asked to practise something - sitting is the most reliable method I know, and it is the one that worked on me. But this is not a meditation course, and the goal isn't to get good at sitting still. The goal is the state you operate from for the rest of the day.
Send a note through the form below with your name, how to reach you, and what you want to understand or change. You can express an interest in The Analysis or The Practice, or ask which would suit you. I read every note and come back to you personally. There's no charge to enquire and no obligation.
Both. The work carries perfectly well over a clear video call, and in-person sessions are available too. We'll pick whatever suits you when we talk.
Completely. Everything is confidential - what you share, and what the work reveals, stays strictly between us.
That's completely normal, and it's why we start with a relaxed conversation before anything else. There's nothing to prepare and nothing to prove. Come as you are, ask anything, and see how it feels.
I work with a limited number of people at a time. Tell me what you want to understand or change, and I'll come back to you personally.
In person or online · Strictly confidential